M4M Spa · NYC · Est. 2025
Gay hands.
Queer care.
Full stop.
A masculine sanctuary in Manhattan. Professional therapeutic massage in a private, queer-owned space designed for gay, bi, and curious men.
Gay Massage & M4M Spa in NYC
— The Name
Not a day spa.
Tranquility
built for men.
Menquility is where the weight of the city finally falls away. Professional therapeutic massage in an environment that is masculine, private, and unapologetically queer — designed by men, for men.
M4M Therapists
Gay-affirming, always
Private Suites
Complete discretion
Gay · Bi · Curious
All welcome. No judgment.
By Appointment
Kips Bay, Manhattan NYC
— Find Us From Your Neighborhood
Manhattan, end to end.
Manhattan
Midtown Manhattan
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Manhattan
Koreatown (K-Town)
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Manhattan
Chelsea
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Manhattan
Hell's Kitchen
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Manhattan
Greenwich Village
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Manhattan
Upper East Side
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Manhattan
Upper West Side
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Manhattan
Financial District
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— Find Us
Kips Bay, Manhattan NYC
Hours & Contact
Daily · By appointment only · Any time of day
By appointment only
+1 (646) 347-1740concierge@menquility.com— The Journal
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